This is something almost everyone experiences with an aging parent at some point. And there are a few options available to you when the time comes, you could:
In this post, we’ll focus on that last option, covering a number of things that you should think about before going forward with it.
Multi-generational living is not only a growing trend today, but also one of the best ways for adult children to get to know and bond with an aging parent in an entirely new way. However, as much as moving your parent into your home has numerous benefits, the new living situation will have an impact on the entire family including a spouse.
It is sad but true, that if you do not have a good relationship with your parent, taking care of them in your home will require careful planning if it is to have any chance of working. Before you embark on a journey to have your aging parent move in take some time to consider the following.
As your parent continues to age, their risk of falling and seriously injuring themselves at home increases. This means that you may have to make modifications to your own home to accommodate your parent.
Many home technologies are available now to assist with safety as well. For example, if you have a two-story home, you will want to eliminate the need for your parent to go to the second floor. This may mean creating a living space on the first floor that doesn’t currently exist.
It may also mean smaller modifications for an elderly person, such as installing grab bars and non-slip flooring in a bathroom, handicapped-accessible toilets, replacing a bath with a wheelchair accessible walk in shower, or a home monitoring system that can alert you to emerging concerns.
We are a Certified Aging in Place Specialist (CAPS), familiar with what’s required to remodel and build accessible and safer space.
One option for additional support is a professional home health aide. In some cases, your insurance will cover certain types of medically necessary support. In other cases, you may have no coverage for in-home help. Take the time to understand what’s covered and what’s not, so if it becomes necessary to have a higher level of care the financial arrangement is in place. This is particularly important if an older adult is suffering from alzheimer‘s and requires help from someone familiar with dementia care.
The transition to multi-generational living will likely cause you to give up some level of privacy in your home. Moreover when a parent moves in with adult children it brings with it a whole host of different issues related to autonomy. That being said, it is possible to redesign the floor plan of your home to give each family member the privacy they deserve. And building an external granny pod may be the best option to preserve privacy.
Asking your parent to live with you can be a terrific way to reduce housing expenses for both of you, because together you will be paying for one home (and all that goes with it) instead of two. Make sure you have this discussion with your parent before moving them in, though. You may have one idea of how finances will be handled, while they have a completely different one. It’s always a good idea to avoid potential tension or resentment over money issues, and a parent’s feeling of dependence.
The joy and warmth that comes with multi-generational living reduces the chance of depression and other negative feelings related to loneliness and isolation for older family members.
Many seniors are more compliant to medication and other medical requirements when they know that their children are watching over them. They also tend to eat better. On top of that, loved ones often take better care of the health and maintenance needs of their parents when they live together.
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