Over 90% of people hope to stay in their homes as they age. Why? Simple: they feel comfortable at home. They have the freedom and privacy to go about their routines as they wish.
However, circumstances may compromise a loved one’s ability to age in place. They could be diagnosed with a debilitating illness or suffer a serious accident that limits their ability to care for themselves. Or their advanced age might just require them to have more support and care around them.
This is something almost everyone experiences with their parents at some point. And there are a few options available to you when the time comes, you could:
- Find a long-term living facility where professionals will provide the assistance they need.
- Remodel their current living space and hire help to meet their needs.
- Invite them to move in with you.
In this post, we’ll focus on that last option, covering a number of things that you should think about before going forward with it.
Before Moving Elderly Parents into Your Home
Multi-generational living is not only a growing trend today, but also one of the best ways to get to know and bond with your parent in an entirely new way.
However, as much as moving elderly parents into your home has numerous benefits, the new living situation will have an impact on just about every aspect of your life. Before you embark on a journey to move your elderly parents in, take some time to consider the following.
Safety will be a major concern
As your parent continues to age, their risk of falling and seriously injuring themselves at home increases. This means that you may have to make home modifications to accommodate your parent. Many home technologies are available now to assist with safety as well.
For example, if you have a two-story home, you will want to eliminate the need for your parent to go to the second floor. This may mean creating a living space downstairs that doesn’t currently exist. It may also mean smaller changes, such as installing handrails and non-slip flooring and a home monitoring system that can alert you to emerging concerns. We are a Certified Aging in Place Specialist (CAPS), familiar with what’s required to remodel and build accessible and safer space.
More of your time will likely be spent caring for them
Your elderly parent might require your support and care in several different ways. It’s important to understand how this will impact your daily living, quality of life, and mental state. Consider how you can arrange for additional support, enabling you to take breaks and enjoy free time.
You might have to hire in-home support
One option for additional support is a professional home health aide. In some cases, your insurance will cover certain types of medically necessary support. In other cases, you may have no coverage for in-home help. Take the time to understand what’s covered and what’s not.
You will lose some privacy
The transition to multi-generational living will likely cause you to give up some level of privacy in your home. Moreover, your new roommate is your parent, which brings with it a whole host of different issues related to autonomy.
That being said, it is possible to redesign the floor plan of your home to give each family member the privacy they deserve.
Two homes, one price
Asking your parent to live with you can be a terrific way to reduce housing expenses for both of you, because together you will be paying for one home (and all that goes with it) instead of two.
Make sure you have this discussion with your parent before moving them in, though. You may have one idea of how expenses will be handled, while they have a completely different one.
Your parent will probably be happier living with you
The joy and warmth that comes with multi-generational living reduces the chance of depression and other negative feelings related to loneliness and isolation for seniors.
Your parent may respond better to care at home
Many seniors are more compliant to medication and other medical requirements when they know that their children are watching over them. They also tend to eat better.
On top of that, loved ones often take better care of the health and maintenance needs of their parents when they live together.
Strengthened family bond
Having your parent in your home creates a unique level of closeness and love in the family. If you have children, it gives them a fantastic opportunity to get to know their grandparent and be involved in each other’s lives.
Your home will be safer and more valuable.
This is one of the big things that many people don’t consider, but the home renovations you make to accommodate your aging parent’s needs makes the space safer for everyone who lives there. Additionally, the renovations often include expanding the home, adding new technology, and other updates, which add value to the home when it comes time to sell.
Starting to think about the possibility of moving your aging parent into your home? Get in touch with us to get guidance on what is necessary to make the space safe and livable for your whole family.